May
28
2010
Is alcoholism okay if you have a lot of drama going on in your life?
Posted by: Alan in alcoholism treatment, tags: Alcoholism, drama, Going, Life., Okay
Drama such as being left by two girls you liked in one month added to being afraid of never finding anyone else.
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May 28th, 2010 at 7:33 am
No its not fine. Best take your frustrations out at the gym. Much healthier addiction too. Then you can worry about girls fighting to be with you later.
May 28th, 2010 at 8:21 am
no matter how bad things get, you should never have to turn to alcoholism to fix your problems. It will only make them worse!
May 28th, 2010 at 8:59 am
An addiction is never okay. It inhibates your ability to make vital life decisions.
May 28th, 2010 at 9:06 am
No. it just makes things worse.
It may make you feel better when you’re drinking, but eventually you’ll pay for it, especially if you’re a true alcoholic.
May 28th, 2010 at 9:57 am
no, alcoholism is not ok for anything.
May 28th, 2010 at 10:15 am
alcoholism is never okay… end of story…. not only will it hurt you it will hurt those around you and your family………
deal with your problems don’t mask them and elevate them with alcohol.
May 28th, 2010 at 10:48 am
No, alcohol is actually make your depression worse. Go out with some friends and do something. You’ll find someone special in no time.
May 28th, 2010 at 10:54 am
No. And you’ll find that alcoholism can be the cause of a lot more drama than you’d ever thought possible. Not just a bit of drama in your love life, but truly brutal and ugly stuff that’ll make all of your present worries look like child’s play.
May 28th, 2010 at 11:03 am
alcoholism is never ok.. Its an easy way out for some but in reality it will just make things worse. Try and find another way to handle the bad things that happen in your life. In time this pain will go away. But using alcohol to supposedly fix your problems will not work. Please believe that I say and give it some great thought. Im sorry things arent going so good for you right now but Im sure you will end up with the right one someday. Those two girls just weren’t the right ones. Hang in there!!
May 28th, 2010 at 11:14 am
i have to say no. complicating your life even more is not going to make your problems go away. drinking is ok, alcoholism is something else. look for another option, hang out with friends or something, not poison yourself over and over.
May 28th, 2010 at 11:36 am
Yes, that’s what you need, more complication in your life!
You may go on a drinking binge if that’s what you want. You may wake up paralyzed–with a hangover! Just think how much better you’ll feel about…hang on…what on earth were you doing in a position to be dumped by two girls in one month?
That’s it! You gotta talk to someone. Clergyfolk, school counselor, therapist, clinical psychologist, psychiatrist, I don’t care. You got bigger problems to solve than whether to drink.
Oh, and my sister offers this advice from her ER rotation. If you must drink and drive, do not drink and drive with a glass bottle between your legs.
And that’s all I hafta say about that.
May 28th, 2010 at 11:40 am
NO NO NO it can destroy your brain,and even kill you.your organs can all shut down,and many more unpleasant things can happen to you.try relaxation exercises,and remember your problems will sort themselves out eventually.
May 28th, 2010 at 12:29 pm
No, it’s not OK. Are drugs OK if you’re a little stressed? Is beating your child OK if you’ve had a bad day? Is stealing OK if it makes you feel better? Choosing bad behaviors and justifying them with hurt feelings and stress isn’t a valid way to deal with it. It’s just “easy”. Crawl out of the pity pit and get a grip on what’s really happened. Is it possible these girls sensed your desperation to have a relationship? The “drama” you describe seems more to stem from you than from someone else. Just work on YOU and the rest will come. Trust me, you really need to like the person inside you. Drinking WON’T help.
May 28th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
No it is not OK, no matter what is going on. I lost my job, had a miscarriage and got a lien put on my house all in the same month and I didn’t become an alcoholic. You can handle two girls leaving you.
May 28th, 2010 at 2:22 pm
NO.
May 28th, 2010 at 3:22 pm
No matter how much Drama is in your life it is never a good thing. I have been left by someone before and never turned to drinking. I am a recovering alcoholic and still find that there are better ways to deal with it.
May 28th, 2010 at 3:48 pm
you would be extremely selfish if you thought it was. you must always think of the effect alcoholism has on those closest to you.
May 28th, 2010 at 4:26 pm
The realization has to come from within. You have to accept that you have a problem to deal with. No one can make you drink nor can any one make you give it up. So, make that resolution now and throw out your slim necked buddy.
May 28th, 2010 at 4:49 pm
No you shouldn’t drink to forget your problems you should solve your problems then drink to celibrate. I’m kidding go to tabc. com and look at what alchoholism does to you.
May 28th, 2010 at 4:53 pm
Some people believe the more you drink the better you feel. One feels good when they reach the buzz stage but then make themselves feel worse by drinking more and more. Alcoholism leads to depression and sometimes suicide and makes one very unproductive. Forget the chaos and bad things in your life and focus on what is good in your life, and keep busy doing productive things. You will be far happier!
May 28th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
it never is. drinking does not solve your problems. you have to solve your problems
May 28th, 2010 at 5:57 pm
ummm no