Alcoholism Recovery & Treatment

My daughter is currently in AIT MOS 35MI, she recently got a counseling statement, on the document her sgt wrote “Recommendation for Article 92″. I looked this up online and the punishment seems really bad. She told me she has to go to UCMJ. The act she commited was as follows: Off duty, in uniform on base, drinking with other soilders in training, she got alcohol poisoning and was found face down in the mud by her sgt. who then rushed her to emergency. Can someone please tell me what can possibly happen to her from here? She also told me she will be chaptered out and will have to go to a Alcohol Abuse Program on post, the chaptering out was not officially documented yet. Based on my research online I am losing my mind back home worried sick that she does not end up in military prison. Does anyone have any information on what might happen to her? Please help. Desperate Single Mom

Me and my hubby have been together 4 yrs. and have a 3 yr. old daughter and 2 yr. old son. Everything was good in the beginning,but for the past 2 yrs. he finds every little excuse to leave. If i say one little thing that he doesnt like,he will use it as an excuse to pack his crap and leave! I’m so scared to even talk around him,because i dont know if I will say something to make him leave. He leaves us about every 3 weeks, its like he has a schedule of when to leave! He stays gone a couple days and then calls me crying and begging to come back,saying the same story over again….that he’s sorry and he will change,and like a dumb a** I always take him back,well because I love him and the kids are so attached to him,they cry everytime he leaves.He has left us over 20 times,and I am so exhausted with trying to work things out with him.He has tried counseling but gave up after the 1st visit,I have asked him why he always leaves,he denies a drug/alcohol problem(even though he gets wasted everytime he leaves),and he denies having any affairs as well.He left this last time,and called 2 days later begging and crying saying he will go to counseling if I let him back.I’m scared too….I have heard it too many times before from him.Is it worth it to give him another chance or am I just setting myself up for failure again?

like i said i have been taking prozac for around a week now on my 3rd or 4th day i decided to drink alcohol i drank 8 cans of stella.
i love my girlfriend completely and have been anxiety issues with her trust because of a situation where a guy had shown interest in her. i know that these feelings were in my head so i consulted my dr who referred me to counseling and per-scribed fluoxitine.
on the specific night in question i had confronted the guy asking him to back off because he was making me feel uncomfortable with the situation and i didn’t really get what i was looking for from him.
later that night i drank and without any meaning i found myself flirting with a woman from work by text msg. i know that i never had the intention of doing anything there but i still did it and i cant explain to myself why.
could the fact i was taking prozac in any way made me act irrationally? could the fact that i mixed my SSRI with alcohol caused me to act in a way i normally wouldn’t? and could it be possible that i was just being selfish because i was feeling down about the situation with this other guy?
i know in my head that i had no intention my words i just want to understand why

My husband of nine years completely flipped out on me today. I was in town, and told him I would be about an hour, I was with my older brother and younger sister and niece and nephews. Well after an hour he called and asked why I was still there. I told him I was just hanging out, and he said ” I thought you were just gonna be gone a little while”? Well i told him I would leave in about an hour cause I had to go to the store still. So he hung up on me. After an hour he called back and I told him i was getting the stuff he asked me to get at the store. When I get home I tried talking to him and he starts yelling at me so loud our two kids open the bedroom door to see what happened. I told them to go back out and he is putting on his shoes and everything, tells me he wants me out, he will call the police, grabs my keys and takes my car keys of my set. When I do finally get them back, I happened to find them an hour later, i went outside and he took all my cds and smashed them. So i took his keys, I shouldnt have, and when he asked for them I told him its not cool is it? You tried so hard to be in control of the car and when I couldnt leave you dont like it. My kids were both there I told them to go to their rooms, and he started yelling again before they left. I told him to calm down, he was scaring them, he called me a b*tch, and all kinds of other names and said I hope you die. He will not talk to me now, I dont know what to do and I am so frustrated because I dont know how to fix it. Hes been to rehab before for alcohol but I know hes not drinking and I dont think hes doing drugs. Any help??? I want to go to counseling but he wont go.
I dont think he is even considering cheating, I mean we have been together for so long. I have two kids, yeah I am a stay at home mom, but this is a very small town so if he even though I would think he would even accuse me of it before he got so mad. I know he will never be physical with me in a bad way its not his nature. we have been together 11 years so I am sure of that. But its just trying to figure out how to fix it.
Ok, he has never done this to me before, this is all new to me. After 9 years I will not leave him because he scared me by yelling. I am trying to find a way to fix it.
he went to rehab through a clinic, said we would go to counseling after he got out, he didnt like his counselor there, but he always had a reason why not to go. now he just wont go. as for alone time or anything I doubt that is it because he just made a point of telling me weeks before that he wants to go when he wants to go. I know he has problems with dealing with stress, we both do, i have epilepsy. he takes a couple prescriptions for them but I dont know if he is now taking them or not. He just doesnt tell me
We have never mesed around on each other or been in this situation before.

Long story condensed as much as possible:
person A and B – best friends- and both my friends
we’re all 18 and in the last month in school before the big final exams.
they’re the type of friends that spend too much time together, and argue over silly things.
A’s girlfriend is a serial cheater.
Last monday B tries to tell A that his girlfriend cheats on him.
A loses temper and takes it out on B
Physical fight ensues. It’s broken up.
When questioned about the fight B says ” Sorry, we were just messing”
A however, doesn’t want to get in trouble and invents a story about how A is bulling him. and this was simply the last straw.
A also says B has alcohol and drug problems ( all complete lies )
so then A gets off scott free ( even through he started the fight)
B however has been suspended indefinitely, must go to AA and counseling, as well as anger management before getting back to school.
with only a few weeks until final exam B’s final results will be hurt badly as he has several projects to finish that carry huge marks
( worth from 20% – 60% in 4 of 7 subjects)
A will not retract the spur of the moment lie for fear of reprisal…
B cannot do the counseling any faster than he is already doing it.
It looks like B will miss most of the last month of school.
What can I do to help?? I feel responsible because i was the one who told B ” you have to tell A if his girlfriend is cheating..”
I wrote a letter to the principle explaining my perspective and how B is not a bully, but that didn’t help, he didn’t believe me.
Anyone have any ideas?? I feel like i need to do something ’cause A is unwilling to take any blame, and B cannot help himself, anything he says just gets him in more trouble. Any suggestions you have at all would help… I feel like i’ve thought about it too much to think of any new solutions.
TL:DR: two friends fight, one says the other is a bully to get out of trouble. Now he will miss a lot of school and fail his exams. Help??