Alcoholism Recovery & Treatment

Question by jenny c: What should I do when I don’t like my mother and never want to see her again?
I am the only girl of 4 children. My mother LOVES her screwed up sons, but hates me.

I am 24 and have made a good life for myself, I was a really good kid and never got into trouble!

She invites me over and then tries to fight with me about stupid stuff (like my brother’s alcoholism, things that happened when I was a kid that she says never happened, my husband and I planning our first child!)

I end up telling her I need to go home because her arguments escalate and she won’t let it go until she wins!

She was verbally abusive to me as a kid, it took a year of counseling to accept that my mother doesn’t treat me with respect or love.

I have come to terms with the fact that she will not change, and although I love her because she is my mother, I do not like her as a person.

I honestly never want to see her face again.

I am a happy person, but when I see her I am miserable and end up leaving her house looking and feeling like the bad guy.

What do I do?
I cut her off completely for 6 months and she is back to her old tricks again!
I wrote her a 5 page letter about how she hurts me and why I don’t like seeing her anymore.

She told me it was B.S. and said she was keeping the letter to show me what a bad daughter I am!!!

Best answer:

Answer by Miss B
Dump the b*tch

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Question by nilleh: How do I deal with my alcoholic mother?
My mother has severe alcoholism. she drink from literally from the time she wake up, until she goes to sleep. She literally drinks from 5 in the morning, to 10 at night. I have tried relentlessly to get her help, to no avail.

I am having a lot of trouble accepting the fact that she might not ever get better, and may very well die from this.
I don’t want to join a group or anything. I don’t think I can take talking face to face with people about my problems.
What do I do?

Best answer:

Answer by TadPole
They have meetings you can Attend online for alnone and i understand my mother was a pill popper and it was really hard to talk about it face to face. I started with the book and then online now i go to meetings. my family was high class and all so i did not want any one to know what i was doing cause i did not want them to know about my moms problem i was 13 and now my mom has started aa and has got a 90 chip. the book works with you not with their problem real try it and i will pray for you and your mother. God and them our the only ones that can fix their problems.

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Question by adingal_5: i am looking for drug and alcohol rehabs for a mother with a three month old child that she wants with her?
I would like informatin on drug and alcohol rehabilitation centers for a mother who would like her three month old child with her. Any listings for California and possibly the closest to Redding California. It is not a court ordered situation just a person wanting rehabilitation and to find her right path in life.She is a Native American Indian so if there are Native American Indian Rehabs we would like that information also.

Best answer:

Answer by Malcolm Knoxville
You being the Mother at issue, I presume.

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Question by Vincent Vega: If my mother has a family disease of Alcoholism, will I get it possibly?
Lets say on my 21st birthday I get hammered wasted. So..?
But I wanna drink!
I wanna drink, smoke, and be a hotshot

I’m 15.

Best answer:

Answer by ImagineThat
as long as you dont feel yourself getting addicted, I dont see a problem with it, but be careful if it runs in the family

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request (● ̮̮ •) : What psychological impact can the life of his mother’s alcoholism have long to his son? best answer:

response from Sharon G
first as long as the claim if it is already an adult … Then he determined to treffen2. Remember that it may sein3 hereditary. if a child – it could end up in neglect What do you mean? Answer below!